text: Um, I was a people pleaser. I was, I wouldn't know how to respond to it. Then they, ಅವಾಗ ಹೆಂಗೆ respond ಮಾಡೋದು ಅಂತ ಗೊತ್ತಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ. So what I would do is I would come back and I would start thinking of a situation where I am the boss, where I am in a happier place.