text: So the key is understanding where the problem lies. It often does not lie where the person is saying it lies. Because the person is a layman. He says, 'देखो मेरे को ये ठीक नहीं लगा.' पर वो इसलिए ठीक नहीं लगा क्योंकि उससे पहले हमने कुछ चीज़ गलत की है.